@Jssra about 95% of song lyrics could have been solved with better communication, negotiated consent, polyamory, pansexuality, and/or HRT

@Jssra Yeah most "love songs" are all creepy and one-sided, about how the object "owes" the subject something.

@Jssra Most of mainstream culture creeps me out. Normative behavior in our society allows abusers so many ways to exclaim that they-the-abusers are acting perfectly normally so what is my problem?

My problem is that I think, I feel (including feeling empathy), and I insist on consent.