i've never been sure what to do about gender while i'm here. i don't have a good sense of where gender politics are, esp in small-ass towns in the dales.
i'd never be happy with milk in the states again. lbr, though, i'm not now.
maybe i'd develop an accent eventually and stop being mortified to talk, like i have been every time i come over for the past few years
idk. i'd have to talk to a lot of various types of family first, but i think it might be good.