fedi usage advice Show more
i've been tooting for about seventeen years, so:
- identity is faceted, as is the fediverse
- create alts on different instances and use them as facets
- you don't need to maintain a facet forever. express the parts of yourself you feel comfortable expressing when and where you feel comfortable expressing them.
- specifically, i recommend creating an after-dark (AD) account for sensitive feels and the nudes and lewds for which you'd like some privacy