Valid as ALL HELL to have spent your formative years comfortable with your assigned gender and only later have it not fit right.
Not everyone "always knew" and that's
@witchfynder_finder for quite a long time i believed i was comfortable with it. i actually wasn't, but denial is powerful shit.
Ya and even once i figured out i was nonbinary i was like "but i don't actually care that much, it doesn't matter, and i mean im used to being referred to by *pronoun* and as *assigned gender* so it wouldn't be worth the trouble to get everyone to change"
Then i started being honest with myself in little tiny increments and once you start being honest, you can't go back to lying, ae
@certifiedperson Yo I totally feel you. It took me so long to go from "Maybe I'm not boy?" to even just trying different pronouns and for a while I was okay if someone still used "he" but eventually you get so used to it that you really can't go back
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