to those who lack the energy, are afraid of conflict, or otherwise don't feel up to speaking up when fucked up shit happens
you better learn to deal with conflict, learn how to speak up and realize that BIPOC people don't have the energy to deal with that shit constantly. You don't have to deal with that shit constantly.
I promise you have the ability.
I'm fucking tired of white trans girls who spend 90% of their day online and in their bedroom acting like they don't have the energy to call out and deal with racists.