in the past i've seen people ask, for example, what a good medicine tracking app with wide timeframes would be after i'd just started using a really good one (i think it was rxdroid)
or what a good replacement for plex would be (jellyfin is superb)
but in both example cases i was too afraid to reply and convinced myself someone else would
because i was just too scared and couldn't get past that
but no longer!!!
i will now be helpful and friendly and sociable and not just always super having my guard up and afraid all the time!!!!!!!