in the past i've seen people ask, for example, what a good medicine tracking app with wide timeframes would be after i'd just started using a really good one (i think it was rxdroid)

or what a good replacement for plex would be (jellyfin is superb)

but in both example cases i was too afraid to reply and convinced myself someone else would

because i was just too scared and couldn't get past that

but no longer!!!

i will now be helpful and friendly and sociable and not just always super having my guard up and afraid all the time!!!!!!!