asking for help to get away from an abusive living situation, boosts needed 

does anyone nearby (i'm in riverside county, in southern california) have a place i could stay in the near future? like, a couch i could sleep on? not yet, but it looks like things are gonna go to shit pretty soon no matter what i do, so it'd be nice to have an escape plan ready. my parents have been incredibly abusive since i moved back in with them, especially since they found out i was trans. today they went into my backpack and took all my hormones, and that's only the tip of the iceberg of the bullshit they've put me through. at the end of next month they wanna take me to mexico and i wanna be gone before then. please help.

reposted this, as its own post instead of part of a looooooong thread

see, this is why i love the fediverse

it's always been there for me even when nobody else was

always here to answer my questions, always here to help me when i need it

thank you

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damn, 40+ boosts in 30 minutes

thank you so much

oh also i should mention

i wanna stay in california so i can stay on my health insurance and stay on my schizophrenia meds

that's like super duper important

this is an utterly shit situation in every way but i find myself... genuinely excited at the prospect of getting away from these abusive assholes

actually, i do suppose another state would be fine

the important thing is that i'm able to stay on my schizophrenia meds

wherever it is has to have good and immediate healthcare, is what i'm saying

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asking for monetary help to get away from an abusive living situation, boosts needed 

aight i've found someone i can stay with in seattle

now i just need to raise money to actually get up there

i need around $200 for a train ticket and anything else you can spare for everything that'll come after (phone bill, food, etc.)

my paypal is paypal.me/v33b33

thank you so much, all of you, for everything

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asking for monetary help to get away from an abusive living situation, boosts needed 

@vantablack have you also managed to set up a bank account your parents can't get at, or limit the amount of transfers you can do?

I did a search and apparently its possible to get an online account just by sending scans of your ID (which is normal procedure because of anti money laundering regulations)

asking for monetary help to get away from an abusive living situation, boosts needed 

@vfrmedia i have a checking account that's hidden from them, but i have to transfer money to my main joint checking to use it bc i don't have a debit card for it

asking for monetary help to get away from an abusive living situation, boosts needed 

@vantablack maybe worth applying for a debit card for this, so you have it in time for when you leave?

asking for monetary help to get away from an abusive living situation, boosts needed 

@vfrmedia i'd have to have it sent here, they might get to it first and question me about it

asking for monetary help to get away from an abusive living situation, boosts needed 

@vantablack hopefully as long as you have some way of independently accessing money hopefully you can use that until you get to Seattle..

@vantablack I'm sorry that you're in the situation that you're in, may you get the money and may you also get out of your situation as soon as possible, amen.

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