**🧪 Kira 🦊** @tty@sunbeam.city · Nov 15, 2021, 01:41

**🧪 Kira 🦊** @tty@sunbeam.city · Nov 15, 2021, 01:41

🧪 Kira 🦊 @tty@sunbeam.city

abusive family patterns (trick)

There's a handy acronym that I've built for myself to help me spot toxic behaviours: DDLIM.

Denial
Dismissiveness
Lack of empathy
Ignoring
Minimizing

**tethre** @tethre@cybre.space · 2021-11-15T14:16:47Z

tethre @tethre@cybre.space

abusive family patterns (trick) + a bit of healthy(?) sarcasm

@tty don't forget the grand finale: the abuser portraying themselves as the victim!