Speaking up, *meaning it*, & *acting on it* is a skill. We can learn & must practice it often. #virtuesignalling comes easy & s/t we mean well - I'm including myself - but it's our responsibility to keep working at it & do better.
That's why I appreciate criticism (even if I'm not as gracious as I'd like to be accepting it - yet), because that's how we learn. You get called on your bullshit, and only you decide if you wanna listen: If you dont, dont pretend otherwise. If you do, share what you learned.