mayor jenny “brutality” dookie @patience@cybre.space

last boosts:

kill all investing and abolish all investors

this should be said, much as it needed to be said a generation ago, give or take:

if you’ve recently released yourself from the confines of “she/her” all your life & you’ve arrived to this new, exciting point in your life,

#1 GOOD!

#2 you also probably have a lot of internalized misogyny to unpack on your own & work thru at your own pace,

SO

here’s how NOT to deal w/ that:

taking it out as trans misogyny toward trans women, trans girls & trans femmes who’ve found solace w/ their own paths by embracing “she/her” for themselves

their path isn’t yours & it ain’t your place to take petty pot-shots at them for loving for themselves what you’ve legit reason to reject for yourself

DON’T be that trans misogynist
who takes on your internalized misogyny by taking it out on others whose journey ain’t the same as yours

if that’s how you wanna deal, then we aren’t gonna get along rn — not ’til you’ve done some personal growth & healing on your own time

new #introductions
[2020 update]

i/we am/are:
– trans (she/her)
– melungeon (& proud to be so)
– white-coded
– a 91yo old hen
– living with partly-healed cptsd & anti-D-managed clinical depression
– an undocumented immigrant
– a child-survivor of clinical trans conversion therapy in the ’80s
– the named party in the Minnesota Supreme Court ruling: the first court case anywhere to redress trans folk’s access to washrooms (and I’m sorry, we lost)
– came up with language like “dead name”, “voicing”, “first/second puberty”, and probably some other silly shit, idk
– mum to an absolutely stupendous kitty

also, a(n)
– DJ & music archivist
– film photographer (can’t afford digital)
– retired graphic artist
– communist (yes to anarchism)
– trained urbanist, deeply moulded by Black womanism
– ardent proponent of equity in public spacing, reclaiming neoliberally-privatized spaces & guerrilla removal of hostile architectures
– young student learning the Talmud, not yet Jewish

sup y’all

📌 pinning this just to be clear:

if you're reading this and you're seeing yourself needing to flee from the U.S. for whatever reason, there is always room for you in my home, even if things are tight

ok

now that i'm comfortably settling down with this instance, i've just gone through and blocked all of the *known* accounts of the Police House Three (slimekat, ohpoorpup, and sophia/matilde); laurelai; and a couple of other people who scare me to death (e.g., creepy af cis chasers), but who are also seemingly unavoidable no matter where one goes

i should be using this instance a bit more often now

the only book you probably ought to avoid in any used pile or little free library is uncle john’s bathroom reader

i’ve discovered these meanies on my pumpkin plants"

they’re called squash vine-borer moths and they mean to kill the whole plant with their eggs

i counted at least three adults trolling my plants, mostly on the outer leaves, not the main stem… not yet, at least

off-hand reminder how there is a non-binary day (today, hurrah!), a women’s day (Mar 8th), and a men’s day, (Nov 19th),

and there still isn’t a trans day

(no my sweaties, it ain’t Mar 31st, May 17th, or Nov 20th, but try again!)

who is bari weiss and why do i care

i prefer to not call them fards,

instead i choose to call them floating point units

damn, there’s a yeeehaw.club instance,

almost makes me wish i could get an account there and put my texas shitposts on it