nilaky @nilaky@cybre.space

hello!

i need $50-ish for groceries and $80 for medical weed

i didn't get the second and third stimulus because my abusive parents claimed me as a dependent to steal them, and my ex-boss refuses to give me my W-2 so i can get that fixed, so i'm still trying to get everything sorted out

i've been trying to find a job video editing or something, i can't work anywhere facing the public because i have asthma and if i catch covid i'll die excruciatingly

paypal: https://paypal.me/v33b33

cashapp: https://cash.app/$vantablack420

venmo: https://venmo.com/vantablack420

thank you so much for saving my life multiple times and continuing to keep me alive, fediverse!!!

#MutualAid #TransCrowdFund

preach

Let's talked about how to apologize.

Again.

1) before you open your mouth, examine yourself. Are you apologizing as a reflex? Or because you actually took a moment to recognize where shit hit the fan?

2) admit your fault. "Hey, it was really shitty of me to send a Nazi video to you. Especially as a defed threat"

3) explain, but not excuse. "I thought it was funny at the time, in an ironic way. But it wasn't, and it was in extremely poor taste."

4) admit fault again "but for real, that was fucked up of me, and i recognize how that was more of a targeted racist action, instead of an ironic joke"

5) commit to improvement "I'm going to be examining myself. Going to remove that shitty YouTube channel i got that video from from my life, and try to follow bipoc YouTube channels to replace them"

6) don't demand forgiveness and give the hurt space "i fucked up, and i do want to get better. But I understand if we stay defedded, because what i did was fucked up"

Remember. You are not apologizing to get back into the good graces of who you hurt. That's MANIPULATIVE

You are apologizing because you fucked up and it's the right thing to do. Improving is good. Becoming less racist is good even if you permanently lose the relationships that shoved you into self improvement. That's GROWTH.

I'm not paying that much for Tentacles!

If you're a website owner, protect all your visitors from FLoC by sending the following HTTP response header:

Permissions-Policy: interest-cohort=()

Sites are starting to do this already, such as @themarkup, @guardian and, yes, us too (at http://duckduckgo.com).

Original tweet : https://twitter.com/DuckDuckGo/status/1380492473424736256

AKAB
(all knights are bastards)

#mastoart #creativetoots

@monorail
this is addition. can you guess where it goes? that's right: the addition hole.

and how about multiplication? that goes in the addition hole too.

and up next we have subtraction. where does that one go? that's right: the addition hole.

Miss your Tesla payments and your car will lock itself, summon a repo man, back itself out of the parking lot, honk its horn, and unlock its doors for the repo man.

https://tiremeetsroad.com/2021/03/18/tesla-allegedly-remotely-unlocks-model-3-owners-car-uses-smart-summon-to-help-repo-agent/

As subprime climbs the shitty tech adoption curve, it gets a new name: "software as a service." In a SaaS world, you cannot own the tools of your profession. Adobe Photoshop becomes Adobe Creative Cloud, and any designer who stops monthly payments becomes economic roadkill.

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hello!

i need $80 for medical weed and $50-ish for groceries

i didn't get the second or third stimulus, and i'm pretty sure it's because my abusive parents claimed me as a dependent again to steal it. before i can try to get that fixed i have to get my W-2 from my abusive former boss who has refused to give it to me. we're gonna be sending him a notarized letter via certified mail tomorrow to light a fire under his ass

i've been trying to find a job video editing or something, i can't work anywhere facing the public because i have asthma and if i catch covid i'll die excruciatingly

paypal: https://paypal.me/v33b33

cashapp: https://cash.app/$vantablack420

venmo: https://venmo.com/vantablack420

thank you so much for saving my life multiple times and continuing to keep me alive, fediverse!!!

#TransCrowdFund #MutualAid

stale meme incoming

just typical discord shenanigans

cc: @jg @vantablack @nilaky

"Jadzia?" actually, the singular is: Jadzium

this is true

A correction to previous #misinformation i've spread

way late but i mentioned "hooters is an american maid cafe". i was incorrect and i've been informed the first dedicated maid cafe was formed in 2001, but the first hooters was created in 1983. Maid Cafes are actually a japanese take on the breastaurant.