neopronouns are cool and good and I approve of them
because my brain is made of soggy oatmeal, sometimes I will mangle them (especially the ones that don't follow a familiar pattern - like, ey/em/eir is easy to remember because it follows the pattern of they/them/their), or blank on them completely and default out to "they". i do my best, but sometimes i just fuck up.
it is always ok to correct me on this! i promise i will not be a dick about it - actually, it's really appreciated, because it will help them stick in my mind better.
(posting this mostly so i can pin it)