Kelly @kellytheandroid@cybre.space

Angel ordered me food at work and like, in addition to seeing Babe today, today has been really good 💗

Hi what's up nerds, I'm on Discord now

I'm still swooning over seeing my girlfriend yesterday, I got to spend so much time with her and it made me so happy 💗💗💗

Now tonight I get to do a little bit of self care, the individual version. I'm going to have some snacks and listen to my girlfriend's stream for quite literally the hundrenth time❣️

Hi pals!

I just got off work and now I get to see my girlfriend and I got to go to Market Spice and like, I'm too gay to exist 💞💞💞💞💞

I'm going to be the most obnoxious datemate ever - if you never hear my girlfriend talk about me again, just know it's because she's had ENOUGH

Hi friends, it's been a while. I hope you've all been okay and well.

I have not been doing so well lately, I've been doing terribly. Summer break really messes with me, I've reverted back to being a sadsack. 💔

So yeah, I've been a sadsack who cries a lot and we're still in the first month of summer. Summer is actually the worst.

Hi friends, do you like my new rack? 😛

I'm really nervous about work tomorrow + I'm not feeling so good so I made some lavender shortbread.

I should also mention that I'm a waitress, nothing special. Apparently I get tips too, from the actual girls, not just the customers. That's pretty cool

Hi, I have a job now.

I also wrote a resume and a cover letter for other jobs, I wasn't expecting to be employed so soon.

It's kind of amusing to think I have a resume and an idea of how to write a cover letter now and like, all the strip club wanted was an application (where I mentioned that this is my first job and I have no experience at all) and proof that I'm 18.

Hi bebes! I just got my final grades in and I wanted to share them with all of you.

I got two 4.0's this quarter! 🌟 And a 3.6 in my other class.

I also got on the Dean's List, for last quarter, I'll probably get on it again this quarter.

Today I'm pretty much going to spend all day cleaning because I really miss my girlfriend. I think out of all of my coping methods, this is probably the healthiest.✨

One more thing.

With all of this in mind, please stop teaching your children to prioritize other people's feelings over their own.

I stayed with my ex because I was worried about her failing academically.

I stayed with my toxic friend because he had just gone through a breakup and he had supported me when I was going through the same thing.

These relationships actively harmed me but I stayed because I didn't want to hurt them.

There are no exceptions when establishing boundaries.

It doesn't matter how nice they are at times, how much they supposedly love you, what "could" happen if you left, or what relation they have to you.

You're not obligated to talk to them, spend time with them, spend money on them, see them multiple days in a row, etc.

You don't need to justify your reasons either.

Forcing them to justify a no is just another way to guilt trip and trap them.

Parents, stop teaching/telling your children that there are exceptions when establishing boundaries and guilt tripping them.

I literally stayed in toxic relationships because

1. I was scared of the consequences for the other person.
2. I felt obligated to stay with them because they were nice to me.
3. We had an established relationship of some kind.

When you teach your kids that there are exceptions, you're trapping them in toxic relationships.

Y'all, I've been hanging out with @angelkitten so much lately and it's been doing my head so much good.

I'm so grateful that she's been able to hang out with me so much lately, it's been doing wonders for my mental health - in terms of self esteem, confidence and in terms of like, feeling loved and wanted and cared for.

She's wonderful and I always feel so good after we hang out - she's such an amazing friend to me 💗 💗 💗 💗 💗 💗

Hi, @angelkitten is the sweetest - every single day I'm blessed to have the honor of being her friend 💗

Thank you so much for taking me to the doctor's today Angel, I was way too scared and anxious to go alone.

I love you so much and I value our friendship, the emotional labor and support you give me so much. Thank you so much for comforting me before, during and after the appointment, you're the sweetest 💗 💗 💗 💗