patreon + discord rant
livid about how bad the patreon + discord integration is
upon each payment cycle, you get forcibly added to servers that you might have left!
patreon can't generate and send you an invite link, because you could share that with someone else.
patreon has no way to opt out of being added to a discord server. if you ask patreon about this, they suggest getting politely banned from the server you don't want to join https://beesbuzz.biz/blog/3222-In-which-I-finally-stop-using-Patreon
if discord let you disable the permission, it'd break the integration
I understand why both companies don't want to fix this given the resources they have
but... hear me out... what if they *worked together* on a solution to this issue?
there are several patreons i want to be on but explicitly do not want to be in the discord for ever