I'm a white decendant of colonialists living on stolen Tongva land.
I see ya'll getting harassed on here so I am ready to help collect my settler kin. My DMs are open if you need help telling white people to sit down and shut the fuck up.
And please please please call me out on my white bullshit when you see it. I know I have a lot to decolonize still and I'm willing to do that hard work.
@Canageek yaaaaay food! And yah sometimes life feels like the tunnel in Willy Wonka and ya just gotta accept that feeling of humility and stay low and on your feet. In that time do whatever makes *you* happy cuz fuck it!
@Canageek corollary: if a partner asks you to keep something a secret from your other partners I consider that a big red flag. (except like personal stuff) if that makes any sense?
@Canageek communication is literally the most important thing. Even if something seems "obvious" just put it in words and ensure everyone knows all that's happening.
Genderfuck eldercybergoth cyborg in progress.
Hard femme but soft on the inside.
Living in a box till I find somewhere I like.
(grey)Ace ghost coast to coast