hmm yeah ok real quick here's my strongly held opinion: as long as you're queer you get to identify basically however you want, whatever helps you feel right
gatekeeping identities mainly serves to hurt other queer folks and plays directly into the hands of cishet normativity
if you disagree then please tell someone else about it, i am intensely not interested
@em one of my lesbian friends had a BIG WHOLE THING because she moved to the northeast and apparently there some people think lesbian basically means TERF. so she's trying to have a "lesbian night" and trans people think she's the devil. it took a lot of work but it seems like she managed to take the word back for, ya know, women who like women and aren't shitty about it...
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