if something feels off or you're not happy with the community you've found, move! i've moved instances several times for various reasons & never regretted it. mastodon.social is fine as a starter instance but don't be afraid to try out a few different places and find a community that fits for you
Cybrespace is an instance of Mastodon, a social network based on open web protocols and free, open-source software. It is decentralized like e-mail.