I wouldn't mind finding a smaller instance. Not because of anything, but because cybre kinda is too big for me to really feel like I know anybody.
The friend.camp model seems really cool! A close knit group of people. But I don't really *have* a close knit group of people here. There are a few people I feel like I talk to a good amount, but they're all doing their own thing.
I guess kinda (-)
Also when you get down to it I kinda don't feel young enough or trans enough to really "fit in" here? Which isn't even a *thing*, I know, but I still feel uncomfortable inserting myself into a community.