I wouldn't mind finding a smaller instance. Not because of anything, but because cybre kinda is too big for me to really feel like I know anybody.
The friend.camp model seems really cool! A close knit group of people. But I don't really *have* a close knit group of people here. There are a few people I feel like I talk to a good amount, but they're all doing their own thing.
semi subtoot but not bad
I used to have more "close friends" here but people have kinda drifted away and in at least one case moved accounts and not accepted my follow request. Which is fine! Absolutely no hard feelings.
But I guess I had the "community" thing on w.t. and it's a muscle I haven't been exercising.
I guess kinda (-)
Also when you get down to it I kinda don't feel young enough or trans enough to really "fit in" here? Which isn't even a *thing*, I know, but I still feel uncomfortable inserting myself into a community.