@fribbledom I've run across this before, in the obvious context that it makes for some counterintuitive incentives for people running those sites.
But this post made me realize that it also means that polyamorous folks are an ideal target demographic for dating sites for just this reason: we don't necessarily fall out of the user base after a successful match.
Which I think means it's actually great business for dating sites to support polyamorous relationship options!
@cincodenada @fribbledom yeah this so much, OK Cupid "supports" polyam people but then only allows you to link one other person's profile to yours proving they actually think polyamory = couples looking for a third