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I'm a white cishet man, more or less living at the top of Privilege Mountain, trying to learn to dismantle and undermine that privilege.

Things I'm into:

Things I'm (interested in?) learning about:

• And all the stuff above, naturally.

This is, of course, incomplete. 🤷🏻‍♂️

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Uh. What do you do when the post you pinned to your profile is out of date? I guess you make a follow-up post with the correction, pin it and hope people notice?

Anyway, uh, in the above post, I describe myself as "cishet", but I figured out I'm actually pansomethingual? Only in the last, like, 8 months or so. I'm still a white cis man, so the thing about Privilege Mountain is still pretty accurate, though. But, yeah. :pansexual_flag:

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7yo, to a classmate at swim lessons: I felt like a jet, but inside the water.

if any of you lovelies out there have questions about using/ buying makeup because maybe you didn't get to play with it growing up, or whatever, you're completely free to ask me anything. big brand, indie, high end, affordable, dupes, accessibility tools, my knowledge of it is pretty wide.

Just… it's fine to not like work (though I'm not sure that's what's exactly in play in this case). That's a poor excuse for taking it out on your fellow workers who're also just trying to get by and deal with you in good faith.

Got more frustrated at work today than I've been at work in… years. Like… the kind of frustrated expend a lot of effort to avoid ever being. I had to walk away and go for a walk to process shit. And hijack time of 3 other people to talk it through.

This is related to my communication themed whining the other day.

If you're bi and you feel out of place in the LGBT+ community, you feel like you're appropriating a struggle which is not your own. Remember that you are the very opposite of alone.

@benhamill @srol Lance Bass hoarded enough gold to attempt to go to space and also put in an offer to purchase the Brady Bunch house, so you might be on to something.

Last night, I finished Heroes of Myth published by Choice of Games. I really liked it. I played as a bit dude and romanced this enby character and they were so cute. The premise was also intriguing and I liked how it played out: You and some confederates are Heroes of the realm, having banished a demon invasion a few years ago. Except you didn't: it was a hoax. Now the fake prophecy from your hoax seems to be coming true for real. Recommended.

Watching people call out tech nerd culture is uplifting.

Watching tech nerd culture cancel itself is embarrassing.

Waiting for tech nerd culture to actually be fucking finally cancelled so we can move the fuck on is exhausting.

And I’m a fuckin’ white beardy dude saying this.




It is absolutely exhausting to put as much thought and effort into written communication as I do and have co-workers seem to only read every third word and then come at me arguing against shit I never suggested or arguing for shit I absolutely suggested as if I hadn't. Ugh. 😫


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