Aoife ☕ 🧙‍♀️ @aoife@cybre.space

hey talking to my relatives is pretty useless, so could people give me some life advice maybe?

basically, i live with my family still, and they're really miserable people and they don't like me a whole lot. my father likes to blow off steam by shouting at me for insufficiently cleaning the pool, not raking enough leaves, that sorta thing

every relative i talks to, from my immediate to extended family, thinks that my father is a small sweet precious little boy who's entitled to my unconditional love and support no matter what he does, and that i need to suck it up and get a life and just take it like a man when it's time for my weekly disciplining

so my problem is that i devote most of my energy to either chores or recovering from one-way shouting matches. this makes baseline function incredibly difficult, in political organizing, in social interaction, and especially in school. a few weeks ago, things escalated to the point where i stopped paying attention to most of my courses, and i don't know if things are gonna stay this way but i fear that i might not ever get a degree at this rate

so, what i'm looking for is immediate, practical advice for where i should be focusing myself in order to get out of this situation as soon as possible. i don't have any interest in short term, temporary solutions. i'm also not interested in therapy, since i feel like therapy can only diagnose problems, and i've spent too much time psychoanalyzing and need to move past theory into practice

also like, i don't consider myself a great writer, so feel free to let me know if i need to clarify anything

replying to "i had to look up why this was funny" with "ok philistine"

using crispr to do caves of qud larping

the sleepiest tabby having a nap on my counter

Double checking someone’s bio before I call them a gamer

babie...

like, there's no way my dick could ever be useful to anyone besides me i think

i feel like surgically removing my genitalia completely would probably be good for society, like i'm just not somebody who needs to be using it

i feel nasty and not in a good way

*stubs my toe and curses but it's actually technically a prayer to some obscure prehistoric deity and my coffee tastes 20% better for two weeks*

Like, people I meet on the Internet might like me but everyone I could meet in person knows what’s up