@CobaltVelvet yeah but on the other hand it's not based around attraction to people so it's really kind of complex?!

@a_breakin_glass yeah but why would sexuality absolutely be based on attraction to people directly? is masturbation not a part of sexuality? what if all those kinks solely exist because of some degree of association with people or some feel you like with people which makes it part of sexuality. what if the association to people is only a side effect of sexuality

@scarlett @a_breakin_glass yeah I'd say so
Asexuality or demisexuality aren't dependent on kinks