I can "grow up" to my death.
I can "grow" into being a better person.
please, kindly, lovingly, don't mix the two. don't tell ppl to "grow up" when they do shit.
(additionally, but this is only tangentially related, not everyone *can* "grow up". consider a plural system. not everyone is required to age.)
(in either case, you can still hold ppl accountable without blaming it on age, mental age, or anything related to age.)
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