I want to tell y'all something I love about #fosstodon.
We're small (<1000 weekly users), but we have a *huge* team of moderators: https://hub.fosstodon.org/about/the-team There are six of us—more than the team a mastodon.social!
That means that we pretty much always have *somebody* around to moderate.
It also means that no one person speaks for the whole instance. We have a whole team devoted to enforcing our CoC. We might not always agree, but we're all working to make #fosstodon welcoming for everyone
@codesections kev has made it quite clear that he is not, in fact, working to make fosstodon welcoming for everyone. Kick him out or shut up.
I disagree with many statements Kev has made in his *personal* capacity. But I also see him—and others—working hard to keep the site running well.
And my broader point is that, since there are six of us, you don't *need* to agree with any one person to be safe and welcome
@codesections a person who disagrees with your own code of conduct is not fit to moderate in accordance with that code of conduct.
Kev's statements make it clear that he doesn't buy into your code of conduct.
If you have him on your mod team at all, you have demonstrated your priorities, and I cannot trust you.
@codesections furthermore, those statements were from his main account, weren't they? How is anyone supposed to tell that they were "personal"?
Trolling or insulting/derogatory comments
Public or private oppressive language or actions
Telling someone their opinions on their oppression don't matter is itself oppressive; people consider particular forms of language to be oppressive; Kev thinks that doesn't matter; therefore Kev is being oppressive.
@LogicalDash @codesections and do you feel like Kev was speaking out against gendering people correctly? If you think that's true I think you need to take a step back from everything and take a few minutes for yourself before you re-read his toot and see if he actually said that or if your feelings on the matter made you think he said that.
In fact, he never once spoke at all about genders or trans people, so that's something you've added based on your interpretation of his toot.
He did something oppressive and didn't give any indication that he understood why it was oppressive. He's probably going to keep doing that. What's going on in his head? No clue, but he can't be a good moderator while he's like this.
@LogicalDash @codesections and I disagree with you that what he did was oppressive. Which takes us back to my previous point that I don't think he has violated the COC; neither the spirit or the letter of it.
And you not giving a shit about his intent and only caring about the effect is again reinforcing his point! You think that some people's feelings (yours and others') get to dictate what's true, and that's the end of the story.
Trans people think it's oppressive to tell them it's silly to post their pronouns. Kev doesn't. But trans people's opinions on the oppression of trans people matter more.
A person who doesn't agree to that is not fit to decide for the instance what constitutes oppression.
@kev @kungtotte @LogicalDash @codesections you feel it has “no relevance” in a forum where people talk to each other that someone says “hey, please address me as x”, when you might be inclined to address them as y based on photo, name, whatever?
That seems _quite_ relevant to get a conversation right.
> do you check the profile of every person you interract with on Mastodon, before hitting reply?
No, but I also don’t publicly poke fun at the topic while running an instance.
> If someone has their identity misrepresented in a comment, like 'dude' for example, then that person says 'I actualy identfy as X, can you please refer to me as such in future?' and the person who made the mistake fixes it, what's the issue?
The issue is your public comments on the matter.
why's it my responsibility to respond to your default, which makes me feel like i don't belong, when you could just avoid the issue by being respectful?
i hate talking about it now, even. this drives women out of tech but you
even when it happens right in front of you.
@kev @chucker like just do a second's reading or listening before speaking and you might not have to cry about how minorities (and the users that try and protect them) make you feel before they leave your server. or how people are oversensitive to words when you delete their profiles for saying "fuck you" for harbouring people that want to freely use hate speech.
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