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I have difficulty inferring people's boundaries from context or social cues. I expect to always have problems with this, even if I get better at mitigation.

If this means we can't be friends, no hard feelings.

But if you are forward about your boundaries, I'll appreciate that.

I am still learning when and how to ask about boundaries in a way that isn't presumptuous. I often get it wrong when I'm distracted by interesting conversation.

The Good Life 

there is an effect called alcoholism whose flavor text says you can't function without alcohol. its actual effect is to reduce your movement speed extremely

whether or not you're drunk.

boozing up won't help. you just have to pay the game to remove the effect and it's hella expensive

Facebook, depressing 

I think if the outage had turned out to be sabotage and hadn't been recoverable, this would have mostly just driven people and money to Twitter, which would promptly have stapled on any features needed to wall the garden

It's all very well to wish for Facebook's death but it doesn't mean much without an alternative

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I need some help.

A couple of weeks ago, I was in a car accident. I wasn't injured, but my car might be totaled.

Since I rely on my car for work, I'm kinda panicking about paying bills and whatnot.

I set up a #gofundme (link below) and got a fair amount of donations at first (very grateful to those folks), but those have nearly all been used up already.

We're getting low on groceries again, I need to refill my meds, we're running low on toiletries, and we've still got 5 or 6 utility and service bills coming up—most of which I'm already behind on.

Please give if you can; every little bit helps, and will be appreciated. And please share this post, even if you can't give.

#crowdfunding #TransCrowdFund #pleasehelp #signalboost

*commodifies you, making you small and nonthreatening*

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If you have the opportunity and means, you can donate to help out striking Kellogg's workers here in Memphis

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Rent help, boosts needed 

Hey, so while I'm back in school, the eviction ban has ended where I live (San Diego, CA), and my current lease will end in about 3 months.

I'm trying to look for a safe job and/or reapply for unemployment so I won't be homeless in a few months, and I could use help staying afloat after having just paid $600 in rent.

Please help me directly at PayPal, Cashapp or Venmo. Thank you. ❤️

Paypal: (deadname warning):

Venmo: @FarahT

Cashapp: $Underwraps77

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Hewwo, I'm a homeless trans man who has recently been evicted by my abelist asshole landlord and I'll have to stay in a hotel room for a few weeks before and after my top surgery, while I heal from surgery and look for housing. If you're able to help out, I would really appreciate it.$NicoBowie

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I've made an alternative frontend to Medium:

If you, like me, are occasionally forced to read articles on, now you can read them on Scribe instead! Feedback welcome.

#OpenSource #crystallang

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what if there was something like crusader kings 3, but it's queer polyamory that is the thing tying all the houses together instead of marriage

those would be some wild fucking games

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happy indigenous peoples’ day! check this out masto:

“for america to live, europe must die” by russell means

Metroid Dread spoilers 

Raven Beak's second form is some real bullshit huh

I'm not sure if I'm even doing damage, but their shield is down, and that was when I could do damage in the QTE just before this...

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hot take

pirate any game from a company where sales don't directly affect the actual creators' wages

buy any game that directly impacts whether the artists and coders can afford rent

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