Does anyone have any ideas on how I might go about "learning" my partners preferred "love languages" without specifically asking outright because they're kinda uncomfortable expressing things like that (or at a loss as to how to express those kinds things).

Like I don't wanna invade their privacy or anything, I just don't know how to pick up on subtle queues or ask without being super upfront and direct.

If it helps they're #gray #aro / #ace (#grayro / #grayace) but idk.